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Temperament testing part i (0verview) - Wednesday, May 04, 2005

Idealist temperment testing results

Idealists, as a temperament, are passionately concerned with personal growth and development. Idealists strive to discover who they are and how they can become their best possible self -- always this quest for self-knowledge and self-improvement drives their imagination. And they want to help others make the journey. Idealists are naturally drawn to working with people, and whether in education or counseling, in social services or personnel work, in journalism or the ministry, they are gifted at helping others find their way in life, often inspiring them to grow as individuals and to fulfill their potentials.

Idealists are sure that friendly cooperation is the best way for people to achieve their goals. Conflict and confrontation upset them because they seem to put up angry barriers between people. Idealists dream of creating harmonious, even caring personal relations, and they have a unique talent for helping people get along with each other and work together for the good of all. Such interpersonal harmony might be a romantic ideal, but then Idealists are incurable romantics who prefer to focus on what might be, rather than what is. The real, practical world is only a starting place for Idealists; they believe that life is filled with possibilities waiting to be realized, rich with meanings calling out to be understood. This idea of a mystical or spiritual dimension to life, the "not visible" or the "not yet" that can only be known through intuition or by a leap of faith, is far more important to Idealists than the world of material things.

Highly ethical in their actions, Idealists hold themselves to a strict standard of personal integrity. They must be true to themselves and to others, and they can be quite hard on themselves when they are dishonest, or when they are false or insincere. More often, however, Idealists are the very soul of kindness. Particularly in their personal relationships, Idealists are without question filled with love and good will. They believe in giving of themselves to help others; they cherish a few warm, sensitive friendships; they strive for a special rapport with their children; and in marriage they wish to find a "soulmate," someone with whom they can bond emotionally and spiritually, sharing their deepest feelings and their complex inner worlds.

Idealists are rare, making up between 20 and 25 percent of the population. But their ability to inspire people with their enthusiasm and their idealism has given them influence far beyond their numbers.

The Four types of Idealists are:

Healers (INFP) Counselors (INFJ) Champions (ENFP) Teachers (ENFJ)

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Temperament testing part ii (definitive categorization) -

Profile: INFJ

Revision: 3.01

Date of Revision: 6 Mar 2005




Beneath the quiet exterior, INFJs hold deep convictions about the weightier matters of life. Those who are activists -- INFJs gravitate toward such a role -- are there for the cause, not for personal glory or political power.


INFJs are champions of the oppressed and downtrodden. They often are found in the wake of an emergency, rescuing those who are in acute distress. INFJs may fantasize about getting revenge on those who victimize the defenseless. The concept of 'poetic
justice' is appealing to the INFJ.


"There's something rotten in Denmark." Accurately suspicious about others' motives, INFJs are not easily led. These are the people that you can rarely fool any of the time. Though affable and sympathetic to most, INFJs are selective about their friends.
Such a friendship is a symbiotic bond that transcends mere words.


INFJs have a knack for fluency in language and facility in communication. In addition, nonverbal sensitivity enables the INFJ to know and be known by others intimately.


Writing, counseling, public service and even politics are areas where INFJs frequently find their niche.


Functional Analysis:


Introverted iNtuition



Introverted intuitives, INFJs enjoy a greater clarity of perception of
inner, unconscious processes than all but their INTJ cousins. Just as
SP types commune with the object and "live in the here and now" of the
physical world, INFJs readily grasp the hidden psychological stimuli
behind the more observable dynamics of behavior and affect. Their
amazing ability to deduce the inner workings of the mind, will and
emotions of others gives INFJs their reputation as prophets and seers.
Unlike the confining, routinizing nature of introverted sensing,
introverted intuition frees this type to act insightfully and
spontaneously as unique solutions arise on an event by event basis.


Extraverted Feeling



Extraverted feeling, the auxiliary deciding function, expresses a
range of emotion and opinions of, for and about people. INFJs, like
many other FJ types, find themselves caught between the desire to
express their wealth of feelings and moral conclusions about the
actions and attitudes of others, and the awareness of the consequences
of unbridled candor. Some vent the attending emotions in private, to
trusted allies. Such confidants are chosen with care, for INFJs are
well aware of the treachery that can reside in the hearts of mortals.
This particular combination of introverted intuition and extraverted
feeling provides INFJs with the raw material from which perceptive
counselors are shaped.


Introverted Thinking



The INFJ's thinking is introverted, turned toward the subject.
Perhaps it is when the INFJ's thinking function is operative that he
is most aloof. A comrade might surmise that such detachment signals a
disillusionment, that she has also been found lacking by the sardonic
eye of this one who plumbs the depths of the human spirit. Experience
suggests that such distancing is merely an indication that the seer
is hard at work and focusing energy into this less efficient tertiary
function.


Extraverted Sensing



INFJs are twice blessed with clarity of vision, both internal and
external. Just as they possess inner vision which is drawn to the forms
of the unconscious, they also have external sensing perception which
readily takes hold of worldly objects. Sensing, however, is the
weakest of the INFJ's arsenal and the most vulnerable. INFJs, like
their fellow intuitives, may be so absorbed in intuitive perceiving
that they become oblivious to physical reality. The INFJ under
stress may fall prey to various forms of immediate gratification.
Awareness of extraverted sensing is probably the source of the "SP
wannabe" side of INFJs. Many yearn to live spontaneously; it's not
uncommon for INFJ actors to take on an SP (often ESTP) role.


Famous INFJs:



Nathan, prophet of Israel
Aristophanes
Chaucer
Goethe
Robert Burns, Scottish poet

U.S. Presidents:

Martin Van Buren
James Earl "Jimmy" Carter



Nathaniel Hawthorne
Fanny Crosby, (blind) hymnist
Mother Teresa of Calcutta
Fred McMurray (My Three Sons)
Shirley Temple Black, child actor, ambassador
Martin Luther King, Jr., civil rights leader, martyr
James Reston, newspaper reporter
Shirley McClain (Sweet Charity, ...)
Piers Anthony, author ("Xanth" series)
Michael Landon (Little House on the Prairie)
Tom Selleck
John Katz, critic, author
Paul Stookey (Peter, Paul and Mary)
U. S. Senator Carol Moseley-Braun (D-IL)
Billy Crystal
Garry Trudeau (Doonesbury)
Nelson Mandela
Mel Gibson
Carrie Fisher
Nicole Kidman
Jamie Foxx
Tori May



Introverted iNtuiting Feeling Judging


by Marina Margaret Heiss


INFJs are distinguished by both their complexity of character and the unusual range and depth of their talents. Strongly humanitarian in outlook, INFJs tend to be idealists, and because of their J preference for closure and completion, they are generally
"doers" as well as dreamers. This rare combination of vision and practicality often results in INFJs taking a disproportionate amount of responsibility in the various causes to which so many of them seem to be drawn.



INFJs are deeply concerned about their relations with individuals as well as the state of humanity at large. They are, in fact, sometimes mistaken for extroverts because they appear so outgoing and are so genuinely interested in people -- a product of the
Feeling function they most readily show to the world. On the contrary, INFJs are true introverts, who can only be emotionally intimate and fulfilled with a chosen few from among their long-term friends, family, or obvious "soul mates." While instinctively
courting the personal and organizational demands continually made upon them by others, at intervals INFJs will suddenly withdraw into themselves, sometimes shutting out even their intimates. This apparent paradox is a necessary escape valve for them,
providing both time to rebuild their depleted resources and a filter to prevent the emotional overload to which they are so susceptible as inherent "givers." As a pattern of behavior, it is perhaps the most confusing aspect of the enigmatic INFJ character
to outsiders, and hence the most often misunderstood -- particularly by those who have little experience with this rare type.



Due in part to the unique perspective produced by this alternation between detachment and involvement in the lives of the people around them, INFJs may well have the clearest insights of all the types into the motivations of others, for good and for evil.
The most important contributing factor to this uncanny gift, however, are the empathic abilities often found in Fs, which seem to be especially heightened in the INFJ type (possibly by the dominance of the introverted N function).



This empathy can serve as a classic example of the two-edged nature of certain INFJ talents, as it can be strong enough to cause discomfort or pain in negative or stressful situations. More explicit inner conflicts are also not uncommon in INFJs; it is
possible to speculate that the causes for some of these may lie in the specific combinations of preferences which define this complex type. For instance, there can sometimes be a "tug-of-war" between NF vision and idealism and the J practicality that urges
compromise for the sake of achieving the highest priority goals. And the I and J combination, while perhaps enhancing self-awareness, may make it difficult for INFJs to articulate their deepest and most convoluted feelings.



Usually self-expression comes more easily to INFJs on paper, as they tend to have strong writing skills. Since in addition they often possess a strong personal charisma, INFJs are generally well-suited to the "inspirational" professions such as teaching
(especially in higher education) and religious leadership. Psychology and counseling are other obvious choices, but overall, INFJs can be exceptionally difficult to pigeonhole by their career paths. Perhaps the best example of this occurs in the technical
fields. Many INFJs perceive themselves at a disadvantage when dealing with the mystique and formality of "hard logic", and in academic terms this may cause a tendency to
gravitate towards the liberal arts rather than the sciences. However, the significant minority of INFJs who do pursue studies and careers in the latter areas tend to be as successful as their T counterparts, as it is *iNtuition* -- the dominant function
for the INFJ type -- which governs the ability to understand abstract theory and implement it creatively.



In their own way, INFJs are just as much "systems builders" as are INTJs; the difference lies in that most INFJ "systems" are founded on human beings and human values, rather than information and technology. Their systems may for these reasons be
conceptually "blurrier" than analogous NT ones, harder to measure in strict numerical terms, and easier to take for granted -- yet it is these same underlying reasons which make the resulting contributions to society so vital and profound.

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shutter focused -

Slowly, with his eyes still closed, the world around him comes into focus... waves caressing the beach, dogs barking, with children's laughter over top... he lays, quietly bringing it all into himself, with the peace of it all...

His eyes open, and the warmth of the morning sunlight caresses his face with a gentle kiss... a smile spreads across his face. It is another glorious day. The scent of freshly brewing coffee prompts his exit, following it into the other room. Tapping the power-button and selecting the playlist, spanish guitar wafts through the room, in tranquil semblence of joy unspeakable.

His cup in hand, he moves to the outside, smelling the fresh ocean air, gazing at the majesty of the mountains painted on the deep blue sky. Leaning on the railing, he watches a little girl dancing with her puppy giggling in glee, eyes drifting to the sailboats out for their daily jaunt of freedom and expression.

It was a well deserved break. This last few months. The struggles and the stress gone with the turning of a page, relieved from the chaos of other people within their fears. Life has returned to its sublime innocence.

Tomorrow is here today...

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rotten fish and moldy bread -

Inside the cage he watches her move to and fro, pacing and cowering in the corners. Moving and jumping at every sound. He is sad at it, wondering why she won't let herself out of it. In the one corner is a dish marked pain and hurt, filled with rotten fish and and moldy bread. In another corner is a bowl marked freedom. With fresh fruit and spring water sitting in ice.

Around her neck is a key, the key to this cage. She looks up at the man, and says, "are you the one that can free me from my cage?" His face puzzles in preplexed interest, for she has the key.

From inside her cage, she picks up sticks and rocks and hurls them through the cage at the man, screaming, "don't hurt me!!!!" He stands there wondering, because he hasn't moved or spoken yet. The rocks and sticks hit him and fall to the ground, the man flinches as some of the rocks hit tender spots, however, for most of the blows he doesn't notice them.

He pulls out fresh fruit from his bag, and holds it out. Still holding a rock in her hand, she sees the fruit, and realizes it is good (not seeing the container marked freedom in the corner near the door of her cage). Inching toward the cage frame, she levies the rock, prepared to throw it and retreat back into the darkness.

He extends his open palm with slices of fresh fruit. Quickly she grabs them through the bars and retreats back into her cage, throwing a rock at the man to make sure he won't follow; forgetting that she is in the cage.

He tries the door of the cage. It isn't locked. He swings it open and sits cross legged in front of the opening. Holding out more fruit.

This goes on for weeks and weeks. Her throwing rocks and occasionally flinching because he is hit in a tender spot, squeeking out a "ouch!!!" which in turn, she again throws another rock and says "You're hurting me!!!" because he verbalized his flinch.

Finally, after almost a month. She climbs out of the cage, grabs the bowl of fruit and kicks him in the stomach, running back into her cage. He erupts in pain, as she slams the door behind her.

Sadness creeps over his face... at the cage w/ its unlocked door, and the key around her neck; as he watches her happily eat the rotten fish and moldy bread.

....turning around, he walks away wondering if he'll meet someone else wandering among the cages...

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